Stop asking other people why.

In any given situation when you are asked why, chances are you have several answers to the question. And those answers change depending on the day, time of day, what just happened before you were asked, how you feel and any other random variable that you can factor in.  What it comes down to is that why is so very subjective and is personally yours.  Your why belongs to you and no one else.  And really, most of the time do you want to share all the why nonsense floating around in your head.  It is messy up there right? So why are you so consumed with other people's why? That is the real question.

Instead of asking an outside person why, discover it for yourself. Ask yourself the question and then do the work to see what comes up. Consider you are filtering all your possibilities with other people's why.  And the best question of all, why are you so concerned with their why? Why is their why so important - if you can discover that, you do not have to ask again.

Stop asking other people why.

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